Life..

I’ve spend some time in my life trying to figure out what my “dreams” are.  I found some things and worked hard to achieve them.  I can honestly say if everything broke down at this point I would be proud of what I accomplished.  I would still have regrets and wonder what could have been.

I spend a lot of time talking to people who are at the supposed critical stage where need to decide what to do with the rest of your life.  I am gonna tell you something that my mom has told me my since I was a toddler.  ”Do what you love and the money will follow”.  I found that this may not be 100 percent accurate but I have changed it to fit the truth. “Do what you love and you will never look back and wonder what could have been”.  If you are reading this chances are you are young and trying to find some purpose in your life.  Here is my little piece of advice.

Follow your dreams regardless of how stupid they may seem (but remember your dreams will only come true if you are willing to work your ass of to get them, you will get no where sitting at home waiting for your life to start)

Never let anyone tell you that you arent good enough for something.  You are as good as you feel.  If you think you deserve to live in a trailer and fix lawnmowers (then thats all you will ever do) and maybe that would make you happy, but if you believe you deserve to have the best life you can possibly have then that is exactly what you will have.

Don’t forget to make a change in the life of some one else.  Im not gonna give you some big religious reason you should help others, Its just the right thing to do, Ive found nothing makes you feel happier and better about your self that putting a smile on the face of someone else.  Even if its something small.

Be Positive.  This is something I’ve struggled with myself.  Always looking at the negative gets you no where and eventually pushes you to depression.  Love your self and love others. 

Forgive (speaks for its self)

Last, don’t be afraid to fall in love, take chances on people. You are gonna get your heart smashed, you are gonna think that the life couldn’t get any worse but it only takes one person to change your entire world and make you forget everything shitty thats ever happened to you.